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A quick scroll through my OkCupid inbox reveals -- not including the conversations with a Girl who I arranged lunch with next week or a man who got Mad when I disagreed with his worldview -- an uninspiring list of unanswered options, all from Guys:
That's because the men were seated when the women were circulating and the women couldn't tell their height. Ladies care A LOT about height. When men approach them, they could tell the man's height. Now true when he's seated. I'm short, but get smiled at all of the time when I'm sitting in a bar. Less when I'm standing. For women. It's 50% about height.
Additionally, 22% of online daters have asked someone to help them produce or review their profile. Girls are around twice as likely as men to request assistance creating or perfecting their profile--30% of female online daters have done this, compared with 16% of men.
Is this simply a manifestation of our self-effacing nature? Or only the lack of originality? Folks, try to do justice to your amazing selves with your internet presence. Maybe instead of a generic adjective which gives the feeling of a lack of personality; try unassuming, or guileless, or ingenuous - I copied those from a thesaurus just now.
I believe we're each hoping for someone to come along and smash our personal padlocks and if this were a movie, another woman Chris dates will do this and then I will need to kill myself, but don't worry about me, I'm fine. If there's one thing I've learned excruciatingly slowly and with incredible difficulty, it's not to prolong an unworkable alliance. I've lost years of my life refusing to discard expired relationships. However long they've sat or how sour they taste, some powerful combination of devotion, stubbornness and pathological fear of change makes me remain. But not this time.
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