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It was embarrassing, but helpful. Writing a profile on your own is a surreal experience because you've got no idea what to say. Add in a parent, and it gets weirder. However, Dad asked me questions and made suggestions to put in my description. Maybe it was the whisky speaking, but the conversation was more of a philosophical conversation about relationships than one about online profiles. The introductory questionnaire from Plenty of Fish touches on everything and helps form the basis for how you're matched with people on the website.
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The issue is that relationship scientists have been investigating links between similarity, "complementarity" (opposite qualities), and marital well-being for the greater part of a century, and little evidence supports the view that either of those principles--at least once assessed by characteristics which can be measured in surveys--predicts marital well-being. Indeed, a major meta-analytic review of the literature by Matthew Montoya and colleagues in 2008 shows that the fundamentals have virtually no impact on relationship quality. Likewise a 23,000-person study by Portia Dyrenforth and colleagues in 2010 demonstrates that such principles accounts for approximately 0.5 percent of person-to-person differences in relationship well-being.
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