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When she's hot enough and you've presented her with the option of "coming over and watching a movie" she will jump at the opportunity to be near you and to perform all of those things you've described to her.
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Online dating can be tricky -- for all sexes. Putting yourself out on the interweb, representing yourself as best as possible through a couple of photographs and a very small paragraph, and then waiting for random strangers to "approve" of you're trying. But hey, the pursuit of love (or sex) is no easy task, or so claimed Lord Byron.
Your standards were WAY too high. If anything the second man might have had an opportunity, but the third man you dismissed offhand. People lie on the world wide web, so that's something you need to consider. Those that don't lie, are the ones you should pay attention to.
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It's a little too much past January 1st to call this a New Year's Resolution, but I've decided to make a change. I don't want to be a passive player in my romantic life. I do not want my dating options to be restricted to the guys who are still optimistic enough to send a message; I might miss some good ones who are just tired of being ignored and I can't blame them. I'd get tired of this too.
Smile and look really happy in at least a couple of your pictures. What kind of girl wants to get to know, let alone date a guy that seems depressed or emotionless? Please bear in mind: a smile or appearing happy does not mean duck faces, these sorts of faces make men look immature and ridiculous.
If you've ever thought about using online dating, I highly encourage you to think, pray, and consider the pros and cons before getting online. Don't do it blindly or in a hurry because your friends encourage you to do it. Don't do it out of fear or a lack of confidence in God. If you're motivated to begin clicking because you're wrestling with fear you will never get married, I'd encourage you to wait. Invest time reading God's Word and ask Him to help you trust Him more in this area of your life.
Semi-related to #9, as an example of something you should do: One of my biggest turn-offs is when a woman is lazy with her spelling and punctuation. I don't Local Slutz ask for perfection, but not bothering (or being unable) to write at a high school level is a massive hint that we're not going to get together.
A girl with a dozen different full length mirror selfies, wearing various outfits & dresses, is leading with her sense of style. You should call this out. ie; "I noticed your style. Very eye catching. That red one is dangerous for me. ;-RRB-".
This group was mainly for me to send very impartial, polite messages and see if things escalated. Most went ok, but the convo was usually dead. I have to say though, most of the polite conversations were really started by men. The guys who messaged me first (once we matched) were all polite -- hellos, good mornings and how are yous. The white guy went a bit flirty and I humoured him but that was it.
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