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Still, the now-ubiquitous smartphone promises more of the same--with the addition of GPS technology and social network integration. The search for mates (or the temptation to seek out mates) will soon be mobile and translucent, and it will be constant.
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Additionally it is crucial to determine what you would like from a love relationship. Make a list. I did. Create a reflection list of what would your ideal mate be like and look like. What are their values? What do you need? Do you want connection? Respect? To be valued? I expect every partner in a love affair to work to put another first or at least on an equal footing as all the existing family that are in the film. There's sufficient love and respect and time to go around surely?
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