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That's right.One of all the things I have found out as part of my study is that people who meet online really progress to union faster than people who meet offline. I believe this is happening for a lot of reasons.
It depends on how they do it. I always double-check the day before or morning before a first date. If they verbally cancel the date, then I just reschedule together. If they don't give any reaction, I consider the date canceled, move them to the Inactive list on my spreadsheet, forget about them, and proceed.
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Maybe I've had different experiences with the fabled "women". There's no such thing, however. Interactions with different girls are interactions with different human beings. Each one has their own criteria, enjoys, ways of interacting, sense of humor . You can learn all the subtle clues, how not to give off threat vibes etc etc but at the end of the day, learning how to get along with people. While people have common similarities, they're also all different and individual.
In 2013 Kania traveled to the National Catholic Singles Conference in Philadelphia. She moved for the speakers, the fellowship, and the info on theology of the body, but not always to meet someone, she says. It's simply a place where she could be herself. No matter what, she says, "I pray for myself and for my future spouse as we both are on our path to grow closer to the Lord, and if it is God's will, we will meet when we are both ready. "
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Then there are the guys I've met online who are really my age, chronologically and emotionally, who seem to click with my weirdness in all the right ways. Some are people whose social circles overlapped with mine but whom I'd never have otherwise met; whose emails wake me up at 5 a.m. with anticipation; who encourage me to be a bit of a mush about Valentine's Day and Jerry Maguire, much to my surprise; that don't blink twice at comparing natal astrology charts; that inspire me to take classes and write more and wear red lipstick as it looks good on me. Some are delightful surprises because sometimes it's about being at the right place at the right time when you're the right age.
Even if you're very honest and write on your profile that you have kids (which is what I do), you'll have men not even read your profile, match with you, and when you say something about your kids, they will freeze. Send them off with a grin. Men that aren't comfortable if you have kids are extremely insecure, or think you are looking for a father for your children. You are dating for you, not for your children. Don't take the time to explain that though, and don't let it dissuade you. On to the next.
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