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Tinder eventually forced Long to stop operation, but Long thinks personal dating supporters like Bernie are the future of dating tech. Rather than spending time swiping and messaging, we'll give our digital matchmakers access to our calendars and GPS locations and allow them to deal with logistics on our behalves. Then, "my Bernie will talk to your Bernie," says Long, and organise dates automatically. When algorithms are so good that we trust their conclusions, perhaps we won't mind giving them more control of our love lives.
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