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When I get to know someone as an individual, guy or girl, its not that different. I would like to learn about them as a person, find out what interests and activities we have in common and generally learn about things that interest them that I think I should learn more about. I've found that being able to bond with someone on an individual level makes it pretty simple to afterwards express a romantic or sexual interest publicly AND either follow up or let it go if they're not too curious. Then even if we neglect 't work out on this level, I've still made a friend.
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